Showing posts with label Kindness. Show all posts
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Thursday, June 6, 2019

Homily for Friday, 7 June 2019– St. Kateri School Mass

Readings of the day: 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18; Responsorial Psalm: Mass with Children; Matthew 5:13-16

Friday of the 7th week of Easter

How many of us here like to eat the occasional salty food or snack? What are some of our favorite salty foods?
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One of my favorite salty foods is tortilla chips. If tortilla chips are anywhere near me, I can very easily eat more of them than I probably should.

Yesterday morning I visited a few of your classrooms here at St. Kateri School. This brought back wonderful memories of when I was living here at St. Kateri Parish and would visit your classrooms and greet you at the front door most days. For four years now, which is way too many tortilla chips ago, not to mention other salty French foods like Paris’ own ham and butter sandwiches, I have been living and studying in Paris, France. One class I visited yesterday asked how old I am. When children ask me this question, I like to play a little game in which I ask the children to guess how old I am. No, I am not 103 years old… But I am probably at the age at which I should be more mindful of eating a good variety of healthy food: Not too much, not too little, not too sweet, and not too salty. The tortilla chip habit is difficult to break, though.

In fact, no matter how old we are, all of us could afford to be mindful of eating what we call a balanced diet. But in our Gospel today, from Matthew, Jesus asks us to do, or actually to be, something even more important than eating the right amount and kinds of every food, and not too many tortilla chips. Does anybody remember from the Gospel we have just heard: What, or who, does Jesus ask us to be? Who does Jesus say we already are and need to be more and more?
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Jesus says that we “are the salt of the earth” and “the light of the world.” What does Jesus mean by calling us and asking us to be “the salt of the earth” and “the light of the world”? God could have made us as great big light bulbs if God had wanted us to be light, or maybe those LED bulbs; they use less energy and are better for the environment, anyway. If God had wanted us to be salt, he could have made us as giant tortilla chips! Okay, that is not quite what Jesus means, but then how are we to be salt and light in our world?

In Jesus’ time, salt was very important for just about everything. It was used in food so it would not spoil, because there were no refrigerators back then. Salt was even used to pay people for their work, in place of coins and paper money. This is where the word “salary” comes from, to describe what somebody earns at her or his job. Even today, when we speak of people who are “worth their salt,” this means that they are to be trusted or do valuable, honest work.

Speaking of light, we started today’s Mass by singing the hymn, “We are Marching in the Light of God.” I especially love this song, because I learned it not only in English but in its original language, Zulu, while singing in a choir when I was in high school: “Siyahamba, ku-kan-yen’ kwen-khos, siyahamba, ku-kan-yen’ kwen-khos.” Not too many years ago, in South Africa, where this song comes from, this hymn was originally a song to protest the racism in much of the society and government there: People with dark skin were treated unfairly by people with lighter skin, because of the color of their skin. They could not buy land to farm to feed their families. They could not find work; could not “earn their salt,” so to speak, so the people protested by marching and singing peacefully, by “Marching in the Light of God.” And this worked to build a peaceful country with much less racism, violence, and injustice.

How, then, might we be called to march “in the light of God,” to be “salt of the earth” and “light of the world”? Here at St. Kateri School, do we not begin our day by praying for one another in our classrooms over the announcements, especially for people in our school community who are in any kind of need, who have experienced loss, who are hurt or sick? In our classrooms, do we ever notice our classmates who need extra help on their schoolwork; who need a friend; who need somebody to listen to them? How many of us, when we enter the school in the morning, hold the front door for the person entering behind us? These are a few ways in which we, at St. Kateri School, might be, as Jesus says we are and asks us to be even more, “salt of the earth” and “light of the world.”

Monday, July 23, 2018

Homily for Monday, 23 July 2018– Ferial

Monday of the 16th Week in Ordinary Time


Optional Memorial of St. Bridget of Sweden

Readings of the day: Micah 6:1-4, 6-8; Psalm 50:5-6, 8-9, 16bc-17, 21, 23; Matthew 8:18-22

This homily was given at the Kateri House Women's Residence Chapel at St. Joseph's College, Edmonton, AB, Canada.


What is the minimal requirement for something, anything?

I am now into my third summer here at St. Joseph’s College as a sessional instructor. A significant part of any course outline I prepare details the minimal requirements for the course: Which courses students must complete, if any, before taking my course, the assignments required in the course and what percentage of the final grade each assignment is worth, and so forth.

Today, the prophet Micah imagines the people of Israel complaining to God that they do not know what God expects of them. Micah structures this section of his book as a trial speech or dialogue, in which God is the defendant and the people of Israel are the plaintiffs. The people of Israel, in Micah’s time, are being overrun by more powerful nations surrounding Israel and, as Micah and other prophets warn Israel, are about to be overtaken completely and taken into exile in Babylon.

But Israel protests to God through Micah: You say we must change our ways; that our sacrifices of “burnt offerings, with calves a year old” are not enough to stave off conquest and exile. What, then, God, do you require of us? What is required to pass this course, and how much is the final exam worth?

In these kinds of trial speeches, which are fairly common in the prophetic books of the Bible, an important feature is that, when the plaintiff begins by presenting the case against the defendant, in this case God, immediately the defendant has a chance to defend himself. In our reading today from Micah, God does just that against the charge of being unclear to the people of Israel as to God’s ethical expectations of them in order not to be exiled to Babylon.

We hear God say essentially through Micah that he has done everything to uphold and save the people of Israel in their worst moments in history, and now the onus is on Israel to behave ethically, especially by defending the dignity of the most vulnerable and in need of this land, Israel, God has given them. “I brought you up from the land of Egypt, and redeemed you from the house of slavery; and I sent before you Moses, Aaron, and Miriam,” God pleads with the people of Israel. What more could Israel want from God?

As an instructor, if I were challenged on clarity of requirements in my course, I might be tempted to say to a student: “The requirements for the course are in the syllabus. Please download and read it”! Might we imagine God saying, “The ethical requirements to avoid exile have been made clear by the example of my relationship, called a covenant, with you in history.”

And yet, as in many prophetic trial speeches and like a good instructor in class, God patiently and repeatedly answers the people’s questions as to what is required of them: “To do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God.” God is our living example of justice, kindness, and humility; of doing more than what is minimally required of us. God is just, kind, and humble (which is always poignant to me, because how often do we think of God as humble?). God’s lived example to us of how to behave ethically is better than any course outline on paper could ever be.

Sunday, July 23, 2017

Homily for Sunday, 23 July 2017

16th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Readings of the day: Wisdom 12:13, 16-19; Psalm 86:5-6, 9-10, 15-16; Romans 8:26-27; Matthew 13:24-30

This homily was given at St. Clare Church, Edmonton, AB, Canada

How would we describe God in no more than a few words or a short sentence? Is it possible to describe God in so brief a way? A good place to start, if we were to undertake the maybe barely possible task of describing God in a few words or a short sentence, might be our readings we have just heard. How do our readings today describe God?

I wonder if, within our culture here in Canada and even across cultures and around the world, there might be two major ways people tend to describe and understand God (or any divine being under whatever religion or belief system): God as good and kind, and God as great and powerful. Under the category of God as good, we speak of God’s kindness, mercy, or gentleness. When we think of God as great, we might speak of God as mighty, powerful; as the God who is capable of creating or destroying even the whole universe; the God who is able to conquer an enemy or punish evildoers.

We find both these images, ways of describing God in our Scriptures: God as good and kind and God as great and powerful. And we find these two ways of describing God in our readings today. In seminary, one of the most fascinating courses I took was on the Psalms. When I speak of the image or description of God as great and as good, I am remembering this way in which the priest who taught the course presented the Psalms. And in our responsorial Psalm today, we hear God presented both as “good and forgiving… merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness” (and so God as good) and as one before whom “all the nations [God has] made shall come and bow down” (and so God as great and powerful).

Our first reading today, drawn from the Book of Wisdom, like today’s Psalm plays on balance between God’s goodness and God’s greatness or power. Wisdom describes a God “whose care is for all people.” God is also clearly described in Wisdom as powerful: “Sovereign in strength,” rebuking “insolence,” showing his “strength when people doubt the completeness of [God’s] power,” and with “power to act whenever” God chooses. Yet God judges justly and “with mildness” and governs “with great forbearance.” God teaches through the gentle exercise of divine power “that the righteous” are those who are “kind.” God fills his “children with good hope” and offers “repentance for sins.” These are all hallmarks of God’s goodness and “loving kindness,” while not denying God’s greatness and power.

In Jesus’ parables of the weeds among the wheat, the mustard seed, and the yeast, the same balance is shown between images of God as good and those of God as great and powerful. God, as “the householder” in the parable of the weeds among the wheat, will, on a day and hour God chooses and only God knows, gather the weeds, separate them from the wheat, bundle them, and burn them. There are consequences for our sin, the weeds that “an enemy,” that is, the devil; Satan has sown in our hearts. And are we not all sinners? Between now and the last day, we will be held accountable for the good we have done as well as for our sin; the wheat as well as the weeds we have sown in the garden that is God’s earth; God’s creation and our relationships with one another and with this creation. God will eventually judge good and evil; “the living and the dead,” as we pray in our Creed.

The key word in all this is “eventually.” God is by no means short on power to judge and to punish sin. God’s final defeat of evil, sin, and Satan is promised us. Yet, even as a judge, God acts with great patience. For a time, God allows our weeds to grow up within the wheat crop. This is the same God who is gentle and patient enough to allow the tiny mustard seed, our tiny and often fragile faith, to grow into a magnificent plant that provides shelter and rest to “the birds of the air”; to all God’s creatures; to us. This is the same God who waits for the small amount of yeast to leaven the great batch of dough, again perhaps an image of our faith.

God’s great power is always balanced by God’s goodness; mercy; kindness; gentleness; patience. Jesus’ parable of the weeds among the wheat in particular reminds me of a line from The Gulag Archipelago by the Russian author Alexandr Solzhenitsyn, commenting on the forced labour camps of the former Soviet Union. “If only it were all so simple,” Solzhenitsyn says. “If only there were evil people somewhere insidiously committing evil deeds, and it were necessary only to separate them from the rest of us and destroy them. But the line dividing good and evil cuts through the heart of every human being. And who is willing to destroy a piece of his own heart”?

If we were to look within our own hearts; if we were to look into the heart of our Church; of our world, we would see a beautiful garden, created, planted, and nurtured by God, no less. But, before long, we would notice that our garden— ourselves both as individuals and together as Church and as a world— is in desperate need of weeding. “The line dividing good and evil cuts through the heart of every” one of us. Our God could very well, with great power, uproot the weeds; destroy the evil and sin sown by Satan that has taken root in our hearts; in the heart of our Church and our world. But our God does not do this. To uproot the weeds too soon would destroy us; would destroy what God wants to save in us, in our Church, and in our world.

God delays weeding the garden, so to speak, not because he is weak or wants to procrastinate. God is not like me; I am not much of a gardener, and I especially dislike pulling weeds! No, God who is great and powerful enough to weed the garden, chooses in his goodness to allow the wheat crop, the good that is within our hearts; our Church; our world, to grow and mature. God chooses in his goodness to give the mustard seed time to grow into a magnificent tree that is shelter for everybody and all creatures. God chooses to allow the small amount of yeast to leaven the great batch of dough, because God is as good as he is great, and then some.

St. Paul’s letter to the Romans, from which we hear today, also speaks to this same overriding goodness and patience of God in light of our weakness and even our sin. God, in his goodness, has sent his Spirit to live within us. “The Spirit helps us in our weakness, for we do not know to pray as we ought,” St. Paul says. “That very Spirit intercedes with sighs too deep for words.” How beautiful this image is of God’s goodness; mercy; kindness; gentleness; patience!

Yet I think God is inviting us through God’s Word we hear today first to hold God’s greatness and goodness together; not to separate them and, second, to act toward one another as God acts toward us, with power and strength that is conditioned by goodness and loving kindness. St. Francis de Sales once said, “There is nothing so strong as gentleness, and nothing so gentle as real strength.”

Imagine our relationships; our marriages; our families; our households; our communities; our workplaces; our Church if we were to live as God lives in us, with goodness; mercy; kindness; gentleness; patience in no way disconnected but conditioning our exercise of “real strength.” Imagine our Church and our world, the more we welcome the sinner (all of us, ultimately) and journey with one another toward God, free of the fear of losing a morally or otherwise pure or certain Church that is a myth anyway. Imagine what a means of God’s grace we could grow into then, if we act as God acts toward us: With gentleness and with real strength that are so interconnected that, for God, they are one movement.

God is gentle and God is strong. God is good and God is great and powerful because God is greatest in his goodness. God is strongest in his gentleness; mercy; kindness; patience. More and more, may the same be true of us.